Happy Father’s Day!
Like most fathers, I cannot think of any sacrifice that would be too great to make for my son. Yet, I know that the way that I feel about John is only a small and imperfect representation of the infinite and perfect love that God our Father feels for each of us. There is no comparison between our human ability to love and the love that God feels for us. I was only blessed to have one child, but I imagine that a man who has 10 children takes the same level of interest in each of the ten as I do in my one. God takes that interest to a level that we cannot even imagine. It’s not that God loves humans in general, He is a Father who knows and is totally committed to each one of His children individually.
The day my son was born everything about him was precious and wonderful—each finger and toe seemed like a separate miracle. God loves us in that kind of detail. As Paul writes, “even all the hairs of [our] head are counted.” We don’t earn or deserve His love and attention. God knows and loves us better than our parents, husbands, wives, families, or friends. In fact, He knows and loves us more than we know and love ourselves. Of course, the analogy of God as our father is admittedly imperfect because the failings of some earthly fathers might cause us to doubt God’s perfect love for us. However, we must remind ourselves that, while earthly fathers may be good or bad, God is a perfect Father.
As fathers who try to follow the example of our Heavenly Father, we must be committed to our two most important responsibilities: faith and action. A dad must have faith in his own abilities as well as in his wife and in his children. He has to build a relationship of trust which helps his family to have faith in him. He must also always be willing to act to protect his family, to prevent a wrong, to fix a bad situation, to repair a broken relationship, to comfort those he loves, and most importantly, to be certain that his family has a faithful relationship with God.
May God bless all fathers!
Fr. Mike
