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WOW!! Talk about a great party! Last Saturday evening over 800 people attended our 75th Anniversary, “Faith+Family+Food” celebration. Thank you for supporting the event. It truly was a festive and joyful evening.


Events like this don’t just happen. We had nearly 100 volunteers and at least 10 staff members who made the event a reality. While I can’t name all of them, there are several who went above and beyond the call of duty in the days leading up to the event and throughout the evening.


Our volunteers were exceptional! The Knights of Columbus cooked burgers and hot dogs, ran the “pub,” created and prepared pulled pork sandwiches, and generally filled in when and where needed. Guillermo Ibarra, Jake Knutte, and Gif Himmelright cooked and prepared nearly 100 pounds of pork butt and a huge quantity of coleslaw. Dozens of members of the San Felipe de Jesus community worked together to prepare elote (Mexican street corn) and fruit. A special shout out to Jeanette Galasso and Galasso Bakery which generously supplied nearly all the rolls that we needed for the event. Mickie and Dave Schinderle along with Gerry Holbert provided invaluable assistance in mixing 90 pounds of ground beef into meatballs, making sauce, and assembling and serving the meatball sandwiches.


On the staff side, Lupe Ojeda, Gloria Turnbull, and Pauline Tran worked for weeks to advertise the event, track registration, make signs, organize volunteers, design and order Stedwear. Suzanne Edwards, Diana Wehbe and a host of young volunteers took on the responsibility of making the event fun for children. Johnny Oskam and his band, YAGO, entertained all of us with terrific music. Our maintenance team, Ruben Mayorga, Efren Oviedo, Victor Fernandez, and Israel Ruiz, worked tirelessly to set up the hall and the plaza, to break it all down, and provided continuous clean-up throughout the evening. Finally, Tom Leeman pulled double duty overseeing the event as both Business Manager and KofC Deputy Grand Knight.


In this weekend’s Gospel, Jesus speaks about how we should be intentional in planning our relationship with God which must be our most important priority - more important than our relationships with fathers, mothers, material possessions, etc. After we have placed God firmly at the center of our lives, we can more joyfully celebrate with one another as we did last Saturday.


Fr. Mike

For every one who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.


This weekend, both Sirach and the Gospel extol the importance of humility. Humility, which is a virtue, is the opposite of pride, which is a vice or sin. Someone once said that, “humility is not thinking less of ourselves, but, rather, thinking of ourselves less.” Humility drives us to focus on the accomplishments, hurts, or needs of others. We commit the sin of pride when we focus on ourselves or believe that we matter more than others.


Pride hurts relationships in every aspect of our lives. Whether it is our marriages, our business relationships, our parish relationships, or our sports teams, pride blocks our ability to enter fully into those relationships. When my son was playing baseball and football, I often told him that his personal success was not as important as the success of his team. In other words, being humble means that, “It’s not about YOU!” This is especially true in our relationship with God. The reading from the Book of Sirach reminds us that, the more we humble ourselves, “the greater [we] are, and [we] will find favor with God.”


Jesus challenged the religious leaders because they thought that their leadership positions were about them and their accomplishments. They were so proud of their positions that they forgot the needs of others and the importance of serving others. Jesus led in a very different way. Long before leadership experts coined the phrase, “servant leadership,” Jesus was the ultimate example of a servant leader. He said so Himself, “I came to serve, not to be served.” He acted humbly as a servant and put the needs of others first. His life and teachings show us how important it is to lead with love, compassion, and a servant's heart.


We are all called to follow Jesus’ example of humility and become servant leaders at home, at school, on our sports teams, in our offices, in our parish, and in our community. We do not need “official” leadership positions or titles. We can lead quietly, by inspiring others around us. We can become great leaders and great Catholics by showing compassion and creating a culture of respect and collaboration. Leading with love and humility makes a positive difference.


Fr. Mike

This week’s passage from Hebrews speaks of “discipline.” The Greek work that is translated as discipline is “paideia,” which refers to the educational system in ancient Greece for the wealthiest and most promising children. The students in paideia were meant to be excellent, to become leaders of their society. If they slid into complacency or mediocrity, they were quickly and firmly corrected. The theory of “no pain, no gain,” reminds us that one cannot achieve success in life without personal discipline. To be excellent in sports or music or academics requires substantial discipline which is often physically, mentally, or emotionally painful. Discipline is part of life.


I was speaking recently with a newly commissioned Marine Second Lieutenant about his time in Marine Officer Candidate School where he was trained by a Marine Gunnery Sergeant. As he explained the grueling, painful process, I was reminded of a scene from An Officer and a Gentlemen in which the Gunnery Sergeant is pushing a Naval officer candidate to his limit. The painful discipline was either going to make the candidate a successful officer or it would cause him to drop from the program. The drill instructors knew the program. They didn’t do things randomly. Everything they did was intended to produce excellent officers.


This is also true in our Christian lives. If we want to achieve the great reward of eternal life, we need to submit ourselves to God’s discipline. In the letter to the Hebrews, we hear that, like a loving earthly father, or a drill instructor, our Heavenly Father must also “discipline” us from time to time so that we can achieve spiritual excellence. We also hear that, Jesus Christ, “although he was a son, he learned obedience through what he suffered.” God treats us in exactly the same way. The right way to look at the challenges that come along our way as Christians is to see behind them the loving hand of God.


God is an affectionate, yet firm, father who raises children to be the best they can be. “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor lose courage when you are punished by Him. For the Lord disciplines him whom He loves, and chastises every son whom He receives.” God knows the program. So, take heart! Don’t be discouraged!


Fr. Mike

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St. Edward the Confessor Catholic Church

33926 Calle La Primavera

Dana Point, CA 92629

Parish Office Hours

Monday-Friday 8am - 5pm

Saturday-Sunday 8am - 2pm

San Felipe De Jesus Chapel

26010 Domingo Ave

Dana Point, CA 92624

Parish Office Contact:

949.496.1307

bramirez@stedward.com

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